The Complete LGBTQIA+
Glossary of Terms

Explore The Complete LGBTQIA+ Glossary of Terms: a comprehensive source offering clear, respectful definitions and insights into gender identities, sexual orientations, cultural terminology, historical places, key figures and more. Ideal for allies and community members seeking to understand and learn about the rich diversity and history of the LGBTQIA+ community.

Disclaimer: This glossary includes a wide range of terms related to the LGBTQIA+ community, including some that may be considered derogatory or offensive by some individuals. Our aim in presenting these terms is solely educational and informative, striving to provide a comprehensive overview of the language used within and about the LGBTQIA+ community. It is important to approach this content with sensitivity and awareness of the diverse experiences and perspectives within the community. Our goal is to empower through knowledge, fostering a deeper understanding and respect for all individuals. We encourage readers to use this glossary as a tool for positive engagement and learning.

Sip-In (Protest)

Sir

In the LGBTQIA+ context, "Sir" is often used as a term of respect or a role identifier within the BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism) community, particularly among gay, bisexual, and queer individuals. It is a title for a dominant partner, signifying authority and control in a BDSM relationship or interaction. The usage of "Sir" reflects both a personal identity and a dynamic within certain relationships, where it serves as an acknowledgment of power, respect, and established roles.

Sissy

The term "Sissy" often refers to a person, typically a man, who exhibits gender expressions traditionally associated with femininity. This term can be used affirmatively or pejoratively, depending on the context. Positively, it is embraced by some as a self-identifier to highlight nonconformity to traditional gender roles and celebrate effeminacy. In drag culture, it can denote a performance style that heavily emphasizes exaggerated femininity. However, it is also important to recognize that the term can be used derogatorily to enforce gender norms and stigmatize gender-nonconforming behavior.

Sissy That Walk

"Sissy That Walk" is a phrase popularized by the drag and LGBTQIA+ communities, notably through media representation in shows like "RuPaul's Drag Race." It's a directive that combines encouragement and command, urging someone to confidently strut or walk with bold, flamboyant, and typically feminine demeanor. The term celebrates self-expression, empowerment, and pride in one’s identity and presence, particularly in the face of adversity or discrimination. It has become an anthem for owning and flaunting one's uniqueness and style in a powerful and unapologetic manner.

Size Queen

A "Size Queen" is a slang term used to describe an individual who has a preference for sexual partners with larger-than-average genitalia. The term is often used humorously or colloquially among gay men but can apply to any gender or sexual orientation. It highlights the importance of physical attributes in the sexual preferences or desires of some individuals. The term reflects not only personal sexual preferences but also the candid and open discussions about sexuality that are a hallmark of LGBTQIA+ culture.

Sizeism

Sizeism refers to discrimination or prejudice directed against individuals based on their body size, particularly in contexts where larger or smaller body sizes are treated unfavorably compared to the societal or cultural ideal. Sizeism can intersect with other forms of discrimination such as homophobia, transphobia, and sexism, impacting individuals' self-esteem, mental health, and access to inclusive spaces or care. The term highlights the need for awareness and action against such biases, promoting body positivity and inclusivity across the spectrum of body types within the community.

Skoliosexual

Skoliosexual is a term used to describe an individual who is primarily attracted to non-binary, genderqueer, or transgender people. This term does not specify the gender identity or sexual orientation of the person using it, focusing instead on their attraction to those who do not conform to traditional gender norms. Skoliosexual is part of a broader spectrum of identities that seek to articulate diverse attractions beyond the binary categories of heterosexual and homosexual, providing a more inclusive and specific language for personal identity within the LGBTQIA+ community.

Slamming

"Slamming" refers to the act of injecting drugs, typically methamphetamine, before or during sexual activities to enhance the experience. This term is particularly prevalent in discussions about health and safety due to the high risks associated with drug use, including increased vulnerability to HIV and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs). It is a significant issue within certain subcultures of the community, often linked with extreme sexual practices and lengthy sessions known as 'marathons.'

Slave / Master

The terms "Slave" and "Master" are often associated with a specific dynamic in BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism) relationships or practices. This dynamic involves a consensual power exchange where the "Slave" agrees to submit to the control of the "Master." These roles are defined through negotiated boundaries and consent, emphasizing the deep trust and communication required to maintain such relationships safely and consensually. This BDSM relationship dynamic can be an integral part of personal identity and sexual expression for those involved.

Slay

"Slay" is a term widely used particularly within drag culture, to denote excellence or great success in performance, appearance, or demeanor. When someone "slays," they are delivering outstanding performance or looking exceptionally good, often exceeding expectations. This term is a powerful expression of approval and admiration, highlighting an individual's ability to dominate, impress, or excel in a given context. It celebrates confidence, skill, and empowerment, making it a celebratory phrase in various social interactions and performances.

Sling

Slut

Originally a derogatory term used to shame individuals, typically women, for their perceived promiscuity or sexual behavior. However, within LGBTQIA+ communities, particularly among queer and feminist circles, the term has been reclaimed and repurposed to challenge traditional sexual norms and empower individuals to embrace their sexuality without shame or judgment. It can signify sexual liberation, agency, and autonomy, emphasizing the right of individuals to explore and express their sexuality freely and without apology.

Slut-Shame

This term refers to the act of stigmatizing or criticizing an individual, often a woman or person perceived as feminine, for their real or perceived sexual behavior, clothing choices, or sexual expression. It involves shaming someone for their perceived promiscuity or sexual activity, typically based on societal norms or expectations regarding gender, sexuality, and morality. Slut-shaming reinforces harmful stereotypes and perpetuates a culture of sexual repression and judgment.

Smooth

"Smooth" often describes someone, typically a gay man, who has little to no body hair and has a sleek, hair-free appearance. This term is used in both a descriptive and aesthetic sense within the community to highlight specific body image preferences that contrast with those who are described as "hairy" (like bears or wolves). The preference for a smooth body can be associated with certain subcultures and is often celebrated in various media representations and within personal and social identity contexts.

Snatched

"Snatched" is a term widely used, particularly within drag culture, to describe an appearance or performance that is exceptionally well-executed, flawless, or perfect. It can refer to impeccable makeup, a stunning outfit, or an overall look that is deemed extremely stylish or sharply executed. The term is often used to express admiration and approval, celebrating meticulous attention to detail and aesthetic precision that captures attention and admiration.

Sniffies

"Sniffies" refers to a location-based, real-time hookup and dating app primarily geared towards gay, bisexual, and curious men. It offers an interactive map to allow users to locate others in their vicinity who are looking for casual meet-ups or relationships. The app is designed to facilitate anonymous connections, focusing on proximity and immediate availability rather than detailed personal profiles. It represents a modern tool for the gay and bisexual community to explore and express their sexual orientation and preferences within a digital space.

Sober

Social Attraction

Social attraction refers to the appeal or magnetism that an individual possesses which makes them generally well-liked and desired as a companion or associate by a wide range of people. This concept is important in understanding social dynamics within various communities, including the LGBTQIA+ community, as it can influence social interactions and the formation of connections.

Social Identities

Social Justice

Social Transition

Social transition refers to the process by which a transgender or gender non-conforming individual begins to live and identify publicly according to their gender identity, rather than the gender they were assigned at birth. This process can include changing one's name, pronouns, clothing, hairstyle, and other forms of gender expression. Social transition may or may not be accompanied by medical transition (such as hormone therapy or surgeries). It is an important step for many transgender individuals as it affirms their gender identity in everyday interactions and can significantly impact their mental health and wellbeing by reducing gender dysphoria and increasing acceptance in social settings.

Socialization

Socks

Sodomite

Sodomy

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