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Sissy

Sissy is historically a slur for effeminate or gay men that some have reclaimed as a proud marker of femininity, and it also names a feminization kink.

Sissy, derived from 'sister,' began as a pejorative aimed at boys and men seen as effeminate or lacking conventional masculine traits, and it was long used to shame gay and gender-nonconforming people. Within LGBTQ+ communities the word means more than one thing today. Some reclaim it as a positive badge of femininity and gentleness, refusing the shame once attached to it. In kink contexts, 'sissy' and 'sissification' name a feminization practice in which someone, often assigned male at birth, embraces hyper-feminine presentation inside a power-exchange dynamic. Meaning depends heavily on who is speaking and the setting, so context matters when reading the term.

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