Skip to content
TheGaygency

Glossary

Gagging

In ballroom and drag culture, gagging is the act of stunning or astonishing an audience, causing a jaw-dropping reaction of awe.

In ballroom and drag culture, gagging describes stunning an audience so completely that people are floored. To gag the room is to deliver a look, reveal, or performance so impressive it leaves onlookers breathless, and a "gagging moment" is exactly that kind of jaw-dropping high point. The word shares the same root as being gagged, the state of speechless amazement, and both trace back to the Black and Latino gay ballroom scene of 1970s and 1980s New York. This theatrical sense is distinct from the BDSM meaning of a physical gag. Here gagging is entirely about impact and spectacle, and it signals strong approval.

How Not to F*ck Up Your Queer Marketing, a free checklist

Free checklist

How not to f*ck up your queer marketing

A checklist for businesses that want to win over LGBTQ+ customers, authentically.

Definitions are the easy part. The checklist helps you get the rest of your marketing right too.

Delivered by email. No spam, ever.

Related terms

Need help applying this?