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Spanking

Spanking is a common consensual erotic and BDSM activity that involves striking a partner's buttocks with a hand or implement within an agreed-upon dynamic.

Spanking involves striking a partner's buttocks, usually with an open hand, paddle, or similar implement, for erotic pleasure or as part of a negotiated discipline dynamic. It is one of the most common forms of kink and appears across all kinds of relationships, including throughout LGBTQ+ communities. Intensity ranges widely, from light and playful smacks to more formal, structured punishment scenes. As with all BDSM, safety depends on clear consent, honest negotiation of limits beforehand, a safeword, and attention to where blows land so the body is not injured. Practiced with communication and care, it is regarded as a legitimate and widely enjoyed form of erotic play.

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