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Lavender Marriage

A lavender marriage is a mixed-orientation marriage of convenience between a man and a woman, entered to conceal one or both partners' queer sexual orientation.

A lavender marriage is a male-female marriage of convenience undertaken to hide the socially stigmatized sexual orientation of one or both spouses. The term dates from the early 20th century, drawing on lavender's association with homosexuality in the 1920s. It is most closely tied to Hollywood before World War II, when studio contracts included morality clauses and openly queer people could lose their careers, homes, or safety. Closeted stars married to protect their reputations; a well-known example is actress Katharine Cornell and director Guthrie McClintic in 1921. Beyond Hollywood, lavender marriages offered LGBTQ+ people a layer of protection from discrimination and legal danger. The practice never fully disappeared and has drawn renewed attention as people continue navigating pressure to conceal who they are.

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