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Serving Cunt

Serving cunt is drag and ballroom slang, meant as high praise, for radiating bold, fierce, confident femininity and looking undeniably good.

Serving cunt is a phrase from Black and Latinx ballroom and drag communities that means projecting an elevated, fierce, unbothered glamour. Here the word cunt is used as a term of praise rather than an insult, part of a long queer tradition of reclaiming harsh language and turning it into power. To serve cunt is to radiate confidence and boldness while looking fabulous. The phrase moved from underground ballroom scenes into wider view through drag culture and shows like RuPaul's Drag Race, and it now circulates widely online. Because the word carries a charged history, it lands very differently inside the community than outside it.

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